Dr. Rob White - September 13, 2026

A Couple Of Things About Love

In today’s fast-paced world, we often throw the word "love" around casually, using it to describe everything from our favorite desserts to our family members. But in the sermon "A Couple of Things About Love," Dr. Rob White of the Athens Universal Life Church challenges us to examine the true depth and meaning of love as presented in 1 John 3:11-18. The message draws a clear distinction between fleeting human emotions and the profound, self-sacrificing love of God.

Scripture References: 1 John 3:11-18

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The Bible teaches that marriage is a cooperative effort of respect, love, and service.This 4-week series encourages spouses to make their marriage a priority.

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How Many Times Shall We Forgive? – A Call to Confrontational Forgiveness

In this powerful sermon, Dr. Rob White explores Jesus’ teaching on forgiveness from Matthew 18:21–35, challenging believers to embrace a radical, confrontational form of forgiveness. When Peter asks Jesus how many times he must forgive a brother who sins against him—suggesting seven times—Jesus responds with “seventy times seven,” a number symbolizing forgiveness beyond calculation.

The sermon begins with the parable of the unforgiving servant, illustrating the hypocrisy of receiving mercy while refusing to extend it. Dr. White emphasizes that forgiveness is not passive acceptance of wrongdoing but a proactive, redemptive act rooted in love and accountability. He introduces the concept of tough love, which confronts sin directly, seeks reconciliation, and protects the vulnerable without enabling destructive behavior.

Real-life examples—such as infidelity, abuse, and addiction—are used to highlight the complexity of forgiveness. Dr. White acknowledges that forgiving does not mean tolerating harmful behavior. Instead, it means refusing to carry bitterness and choosing healing over resentment. He reminds us that forgiveness is a daily decision, especially when the wounds are deep.

The sermon also draws a surprising parallel to the Chicago Cubs and their fans, who forgave decades of disappointment and even a single fan’s infamous mistake during a critical game. The Cubs’ public forgiveness of Steve Bartman, culminating in gifting him a World Series ring, serves as a secular yet profound example of grace and restoration.

Ultimately, Dr. White calls the church to be a community of forgiveness—a place where grace abounds, healing begins, and relationships are restored. Forgiveness, he teaches, is not about keeping score but about living in the freedom Christ offers. It’s about being Christ’s team, united in purpose and love.